Bohemian Intisaar – A small thought

Respect everyone’s uniqueness and experience a magical life with victory.

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“there is no shortage of fault to be found amid our stars”
― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

Each man has his own special drink which he orders at the counter; or simply we can say that every person has his or her own style of living, has his or her own pair of sunglasses. Even when one tries to change or adjust or try to try some other drink,  cent percent success is not possible. We tend to show that we are very honest, loyal or cooperative with our partner, this partner can be a business partner, life partner or even a temporary school project partner, John is at the end of the day John.  Then the question arises in my mind that why can’t we accept someone as he or she is ? why can’t we respect each other’s uniqueness, each other’s identity and each other’s reality and achieve intisaar(1)?

Just imagine once we are totally fine with everything. Serious about everything with a glimpse of calmness. Zest will be on our mind and motivation will be running in our blood. If we give time, patience and respect to the uniqueness of the other person and we try to understand his or her style sacrificing some time then life can be beautiful AF.

I work as an artist, a PR manager, a student, a head and a teacher. At the age of 21 I have had numerous experiences where I had to deal with people who had a completely different and unique ways of working. They were bohemian in their own world and were at the position where they could comfortably expect that the person at the visitor’s side of the desk would the one who will adjust. The only thing I learned was that we need to accept the other person’s reality and be happy about it. If we stay rigid and inflexible then it will be very difficult to survive in this world. No one is wrong, its just that your righteousness can be a little less right sometimes.

Life is beautiful. Give it a chance, a unique chance. RESPECT. LOVE. FORGIVE.

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Definations:

(1) Victory

A Day Trading Stir

The world is temporary .The incoming love of my life is a day trader(1). Never listens to me, unpredictable, does not stay long and always leaves a mark. This mark can be a scar or a soul hickey. This love can be anything; desire, affection, and even hatred. Being a little bias, I will say that every love is of the same type and even if there exists one tiny true love, he is destroyed or undervalued which leads to his slow death.

One should never rely on anyone for anything because you have no idea when that thing on which or the person on whom you are relying will disappear indifferently like a Kermit sipping tea. We value everything and prioritize each and every aspect of our life. This is human nature. But when this value shatters, the broken pieces of the soul’s mirror are no less than a nuclear bomb exploded inside our body! It pains when you are not treated the way you expected and the day ends, you predefine tomorrow as sorrowful. One simple rule: don’t ‘bro’ him if you don’t ‘know’ him, basically, don’t give unnecessary importance or an important place in your life to anyone. Be your own superhero and satisfy your needs with your superpowers.

Believe in reality. You need to create a win-win situation where you earn benefit from all the perspective. Be positive, hard as rock and as stubborn as a mule.

“If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping with a mosquito”.     – His holiness the Dalai Lama.

Don’t lose hope and love in life. I love my violin, he never betrays me, and sounds like honey if he is treated well. He is not a day trader. He has invested in me for a long time now and this investment is going to have a huge return value later in the circle of life. I am quite sure. May the shares of your life touch cloud nine. Peace.

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  1. Day trader:  Strictly, day trading is trading only within a day, irrespective of the profit and loss. Any entity which practices day trading is a day trader.

Breaking the mountain within

When there is too much stress or worry, look within.”

– His holiness the Dalai Lama

We are thinking about numerous things, incidents, reactions which we could have made in past and what we feel almost all the time; this thinking process initiates the founding of the house of worry and stress within ourselves. We try to find solutions, we reach the dark tunnel whose bright end is not so bright, we think about promises which were never fulfilled, we think about favors which were never returned and we start comparing our lives with lives of other people. In short, we start losing our taste in life and become lethargic and are lost but never found.

This tension mountain needs large scale bombing. Pain is one of the solutions to initiate lava eruption and gift peace to the god of mountain. Love bites can sometimes do magical things. Letting go can provide a paracetamol relief with no side-effects. For a healthy and open mind, for the mind to concentrate on priority tasks, for the cure of swollen cerebrum one has to take out time for the treatment, as sitting, thinking and being a couch potato can only help you to drink Netflix but not brighten up the end of the tunnel. There is a thin line between thinking and introspections.  The day we start start to untangle the entangled, is the day we would understand the real meaning of life which is ‘hard-work tending to sweet fruit’.

I have seen people going to temples, spending huge amount of money on statues and priests to get their problems resolved magically and hence vanish their stress and if their issues are resolved they call it ”God’s Miracle” and if there issues are not resolved they cover it up by stating that “there must have been something wrong or something must have been missing in their worship practices”, but they would never realize that they are stuck in a vicious circle of life where they are peace seekers, greedy for assets and mental relief and their car is continuously bumping over speed breaker of panic and anxiety.

So now after blaming human nature for its carelessness and impulsive not-understanding attitude let us understand the basic key rule to handle stress with the help of this short story titled “The glass of water”.

A lecturer was giving a lecture to his student on stress management. He raised a glass of water and asked the audience, “How heavy do you think this glass of water is?”
The students’ answers ranged from 20gms to 500gms.

It does not matter on the absolute weight. It depends on how long you hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it is OK. If I hold it for an hour, I will have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you will have to call an ambulance.
It is the exact same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes. If we carry our burdens and stress all the time, sooner or later, we will not be able to carry on, the stress becoming increasingly heavier.
What you have to do is to put the glass down, rest for a while before holding it up again. We have to put down the burden periodically, so that we can be refreshed and are able to carry on.

So before you return home from work tonight, put the stress of work down, put the stress of  life down. Don’t carry it back home. You can pick it up tomorrow. Whatever weights you are having now on your shoulders, let it down for a moment if you can. Pick it up again later when you have rested.

So in the end I would say that, one should let the mountain move, let the lightning break this mountain into pieces, think about your life and break-free and say yes to yoga.